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Posted by terrics on October 18, 2005, at 6:47:28
I am afraid that today she will end it because I am the kind of person who digs deep for someone's weaknesses and then stick needles in the person using their weaknesses. I constantly do it to her. I think it is easier to tolerate overt cruelty than covert. terrics
Posted by fallsfall on October 18, 2005, at 7:34:22
In reply to Fear of being to cruel to T., posted by terrics on October 18, 2005, at 6:47:28
Tell her that you see this as a trait of yours and that you are afraid that you are doing this to her. This is something that should be talked about.
Posted by Emily Elizabeth on October 18, 2005, at 9:54:12
In reply to Fear of being to cruel to T., posted by terrics on October 18, 2005, at 6:47:28
I agree w/ falls. Actually, I think your T would be *thrilled* if you brought that up w/ her. Insight into some of your difficulties--what T wouldn't want to work with a client like that?! ;)
Best,
EE
Posted by happyflower on October 18, 2005, at 10:25:16
In reply to Re: Fear of being to cruel to T., posted by Emily Elizabeth on October 18, 2005, at 9:54:12
Hi Terrics,
I think I used to do this to avoid becoming attached to anyone. Instead of them letting me down, I brought them down instead. I think for me it was a trust issue. I am sure you won't be the first one to do this to your T . I would talk to her about it, it could be very insiteful for you about yourself. :) Hang in there, and don't worry I won't let you poke my eyeball out! LOL Just kidding! :)
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