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Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 12:58:35
So what does T do? What has she done? What do I need to do? Why do I miss her?
T serves as sorta a safety net thing. She can make me feel more safe, and then mebbe I can look at the stuff inside what scares me, mebbe I can let the kid get some peace, then we can all have some peace.
She teaches bout ways of coping that are good, so I don’t use bad ones.
She helping me understand and learn how to notice what I thinking, and whether it is truth or not.
Mebbe she can be a safe person in which I can let there be emotions and so I don’t got to be so controlled.
She helped me to know, mostly anyhow, that I not tainted. And I know that I not evil now.
I need to be able to let DH near. Right now I just can’t, I just can’t. I panic. Its very awful.
She seems to accept me, no matter what. That’s been important.
She teaches me bout God stuff, she has a strong faith that’s good for me to see.
I miss her cuz she’s nice to me. I am having to be extra controlled when she gone, and in some ways its good, but its not so good either, I am tired a lot. So I miss her safetyness. Kid misses the ‘nice voice’. I miss her as a person who I like. I want to get on with certain things, and I can’t when she gone, so I am in a careful holding pattern. My DH getting kinda upset, I need to deal w/that…
I want to poke her arm, so we can know she real.
Been 3 wks.
She be back in office Apr 9/10. 3-4 wks to go depending on how you look at it…
Mebbe I'll consider this weekend as halfway point, thats a nice thot.
Sigh.
Hope she having a good time anyways.
I will try to think of her having happiness.
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:07:33
In reply to T, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 12:58:35
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoo
full
of
SH*T.
Posted by one woman cine on March 13, 2007, at 13:12:14
In reply to Re: T, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:07:33
Be kind to yourself -
it's OK to have ambivalent feelings about separation - meaning you are happy and angry at the same time.
Try to do some nice things for yourself while she's gone. She'll be back soon enough.
Posted by Gee on March 13, 2007, at 13:36:20
In reply to Re: T, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:07:33
(((IWILL AND KIDS))))))
How's it going with her dogs? Are they helping at all?
I'm so sorry you miss her so much. It's not very much longer at all. I will count with you if you want because that's almost the last day of classes for me.
Posted by Happyflower on March 13, 2007, at 13:40:42
In reply to T, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 12:58:35
You can do this, I know you can get through the next weeks. She is good, and I bet she missed you too. You will be okay.....;-) (((((((((((((((M))))))))))))))))))
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:52:42
In reply to Re: T » Iwillsurvive, posted by one woman cine on March 13, 2007, at 13:12:14
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:56:04
In reply to Re: T » Iwillsurvive, posted by Gee on March 13, 2007, at 13:36:20
Thanks ((Gee))
No dogs for 2 weeks, then we get them for 2 weeks again. So that'll be nice.
T didn't want me burdened with dogs over spring break, in case I wanted to take my IRL kids camping or something. It'd be a bit much with 3 dogs and 2 kids!
Yeah, I'll be OK.
Just kinda sucks.
Glad its almost end of term for you. Then you can have a break.
Your NOT going home I hope :( ???
Take care Gee.
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:57:53
In reply to Re: T, posted by Happyflower on March 13, 2007, at 13:40:42
:) Thanks HF. You make me smile.
Hows all your 'stuff' going?
I'll be OK. I always am. I have lots of coping mechanisms. Lotsa bad ones, but some good ones too!
Take care
Posted by Daisym on March 13, 2007, at 19:33:43
In reply to Re: T, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 13, 2007, at 13:07:33
Actually - you aren't. It is physiologically impossible. You are actually full of air - warm, life giving oxygen -- you are full of something very good.
Be nice to yourself. You are doing an amazing job of hanging in there. I know it is hard. I'm glad you are posting.
Hugs,
Daisy
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 15, 2007, at 21:59:03
In reply to Re: T » Iwillsurvive, posted by Daisym on March 13, 2007, at 19:33:43
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